文档介绍：Why do we hurt others?
Zhang Ling Shan
Abstract
Aggression mon in our life, especially in children. I want to lead to the concept of aggression through describing the specific example. Using psychology theory to explain aggressive behavior, and to find out why do we attack others and how should we control the behavior from psychology. Especially the famous Bandura’s social learning theory in the psychological history. Finally, I summarize on my view on psychology theory of aggression and put forward five suggestions on practical case. I hope this paper can play an inspired role on children's aggressive behavior research.
Key words: Aggression Social-Learning-Theory Children
Aggression of Li Lei
Li Lei is a boy, on the fourth grade. When he was a child, his parents often quarrel, especially he had often seen his father scolding and beating his mother. Since his kindergarten, Li Lei began to humiliate other students, quarrel or fight with others. The violent behaviors are so frequently that his classmates don’t like him and unwilling get along with him. Of course, he doesn’t like to participate in any group activities and hide away from his teacher
s instead of initiating to contact with them. At home, Li Lei is municate with his parents, even he will angry with his relatives or friends who just touch Li lei’ s head for expressing their friendly.
One time, Xiao Xiao gently pat Li Lei’s back with book and wanted to say hello. However, suddenly,Li Lei became very irritable. Then, he struck Xiao’s head heavily and haven’t stop until Xiao Xiao crying. With strange, see crying, he even laughing. Li Lei really like call nicknames to other students. For instance, Because of Xiao Mei’s little chubby, Li Lei always call her “a dinosaur” and laugh at her. The result is that Xiao Mei often cry secretly and afraid anyone.
When his elementary school, gradually, Li Lei was treated as a “violent child” by his teachers. Whenever he makes a mistake, teachers always punish