文档介绍：Difference in the marriage between China and the USA
(当下中美,婚姻生活对比)
MARRY
BIRTH
NO
YES
DIVORCE
NO
YES
terminal
A
Special
Program
Choices
(just program-med it as you like)
Re-
burden
THE CONCEPTION OF GETTING MARRIED 结婚观念
Chinese:affection family children
the sense of belonging----house>>>>materialized
The USA:The spirit of contract
Loyalty (the certificate is not so important)
make effort together to own bread、house 、automobile
>>>>>open-mind、idealist、national
Whether to have children 要孩子否?
The USA: the policy support
(the poor people can make money by having child,
600dollar ,food-ticket subsidy(补助)/child )
Chinese:传统观念—“多子多福”、“养儿防老”
BUT- National conditions----a large population
Family planning(计划生育)
Pregnant women,benifit syetem unsound(0孕妇福利制度不健全)
the cost of bringing up a child
Burden in marriage 婚姻压力
Chinese:
工作压力
家庭负担
个人健康
住房压力
婚恋关系
赡养父母
同事关系----------经济问题!!
The USA:
the ecnomic crisis
put off marriage(average age:,,,)
avoid divorce(can afford the solitary life )
go to Public schools(pay less money)
DIVORCE 离婚
Chinese : The divorce rate increase
(2000年至08年,结婚率上升12%,离婚率上升20%)
原因: expectation 婚姻质量、感情需求和爱情期望的提升
Simplify procedure 结婚和离婚程序的简化(只交工本费—冲动结、离婚)
status 妇女地位的提高,争取幸福权利的觉醒
The USA: : The divorce rate is high still
(till 2008 the rate is 40%,
63%of the american children are braught up