文档介绍：10个方式,让自己与众不同看问题!
You don't have to be Gandhi or Mother Theresa to think wisely. We can all tap in to that place within ourselves if we try. Being wise can save us a lot of heartache and negativity in our lives. And who wouldn't want that? Here are 10 ways you can think like a wise person:
你不必像甘地和德兰修女那样做事。要是愿意一试,我们都可以做到那种地步。在生活中合理运用可以避免做出些令自己后悔的事、避免产生消极情绪。有谁不想变得聪明?
1. Think before you speak.
话要想着说
Like you haven't heard that one before! I'm sure most of our parents told us that when we were children. It's something you probably know you should do, but may find difficult. One of the principles munication is that "Once you say it, you can't take it back." Sure, you can try. But whether the other person will believe you is another story. So before you open your mouth to say something, make sure it's something you would be proud to post everywhere on social media. If it's something you might regret later, then maybe it's better if you kept it to yourself.
像是从没听说过似的!我敢说在我们都还是孩子的年代就听父母就说过。这就是你明知道该怎么做却难以做到的事。交流有一个原则“一旦把话说出口就不能收回。”当然,你大可一试,但是对方是否会相信你的另一个故事呢。因此,在开口说话前,确信你所说的话合适到足以禁得起放到社会媒体上检验的地步。说出的话要是过一会儿就后悔,那最好还是不要说。
2. Realize there is never a 'right time.'
明白根本就没有一个“对的时间”
"When I get a better job," or, "When I graduate," or, "When the kids are grown." These are mon statements that are probably uttered by millions of people every day. But you will always be able to rationali