文档介绍：对待批评的提议双语
享受失败的乐趣。
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I have a very hard time being criticized, corrected, or accused – even of the smallest mistakes – and I react very angrily. I’ve wrestled1 this instinct under control in a professional context, more or less, but I have more trouble with it at home. All it takes is for the Big Girl to say something like,"You forgot to remind me to bring my library book," to send me into a tirade2. "What do you mean…it's not my responsibility…I didn’t know Wednesday was Library Day…" etc., etc.
对我哪怕是最微小的一个批评、纠正或指责，我全部会极难接收——而且我会做出十分愤怒的反应。在职业中，我会将这种本能遏制住，不过在家里却难以做到。只需要大女儿说类似：“你忘记提醒我要带图书馆图书”就能让我言辞剧烈。“你是什么意思..这不是我的事..我又不知道星期三是图书馆日...”诸如这类的话。
More and more, I see the connection between perfectionism, control, and anger. Zoikes, how I try to be more mild-mannered and easy-going! Here are some of the strategies that I try to use to accept criticism. If I manage to use them, they never fail me, but it can be hard to have the mindfulness needed to apply them.
我越来越发觉完美主义、控制和愤怒之间的关系。啊，我是多么努力在要做到更温文尔雅、更随和!下面是我用来接收批评时的策略中的部分。假如我用上它们，就绝对不会让我失望，不过要有一个清醒头脑去用它们却是一件困难的事情。
1. Listen to what a critic is saying. Really listen, try to understand that point of view, don’t just nod while you formulate3 your retorts.
听一听批评者在说什么。真正倾听，试图了解看法，不要一边点头，一边准备自己的反驳。
2. Don't be defensive4. This is the toughest step for me. With my writing,