文档介绍：你是一个想太多的人吗? 2015-07-10 译言作者|SHAWN MCKIBBEN 译者|Shining 夏小糖 You ’veprobably been told that the world isatyour finger tips. You have more choices than ever before and that you should besolucky that there are abundant opportunities out idea can beablessing for some and acurse for others. 可能有人告诉过你世界就在你的指尖,你拥有前所未有的更多选择,并且你应当为外面众多的机遇而感到幸运。这个想法对于一些人来说是福音,对另一些人来说却是灾难。 Ifyou ’reanover-thinker like me, itcan beexhausting running through every possible scenario for every potential what if’sstart torun your life and you can get sodeep down the rabbit hole, that you can even forget what your original intention ’seven worse when you ’ reunaware you are doing it! 如果你和我一样是名过度思考者, 那么为了每一个潜在的可能性在脑海中过一遍所有可能的场景会让你精疲力尽。那些“如果.. 会怎样”开始掌控你的生活, 你将深陷其中, 甚至忘记你的初衷。而当你都没有意识到你在这么做的时候那会更加糟糕! Here are 15signs that you are anover-thinker, even ifyou don ’tfeel you are. 这里有15 个信号表明你是一个过度思考者, 即使你自己并不这么觉得。 1. You find meaning in everything 1. 你在每件事中找寻意义 Someone you like twirls their hair twice, instead ofthree times. You walk past someone and they don ’tmake eye contact with you, but you walk past them again and this time they make eye contact, but for only acouple ofseconds. They looked away alittle too fast. What does itall mean!? When you ’ reanover-thinker, you tend towant tofind meaning inthe world around you. Sometimes, itcan consume you and you over-analyze everything. It’shelpful toremind yourself that nothing has inherent meaning, other than the meaning you give it. 你喜欢的人卷了两次头发, 而不是三次。你走路时经过某人, 他们并没有和你发生眼神接触, 但是当你再次路过的时候他们看了你, 但只看了几秒钟。他们移开目光的速度有点太快了。这是什么意思?当你是一名过度思考者, 你倾向于在你身边的世界中找寻意义。有时, 这会消耗你, 你会过度分析所有事物。提醒你自己任何东西都没有什么内在的含义, 除了你附加上的,这会对你有帮助。 2. You think more than you do 2. 你想得比做得多 Ever heard the term analysis paralysis? You think somuch that you don ’tend updoing anything. You weigh your options. You decide that the best e might be, but then pare the best e with anew possible best e. The cycle continues until you end updoing nothing. Instead ofthinking abou