文档介绍:从中美家庭教育的差异来分析中国家庭教育的现状  
The analysis of the actuality of Chinese family education from the difference between Chinese and American family education
[摘要]家庭是人生的第一所学校,是学校教育的基础和重要补充。一般地说,人都出生和生活在一个家庭中,都是首先通过家庭这个最小的社会基层组织,再进入更广泛的社会生活领域的。因此,对每一个人的成长来说,家庭是第一所学校,父母是第一任教师。家庭对儿童身体的发育,知识的获得,能力的培养,品德的陶冶,个性的形成,都是至关重要的。中美两国在家庭教育上存在着显著的差异,如在家庭成员的相互关系上,我国家长大多处于统治地位,而美等相处,他们是尊重自己子女的看法的;在育儿观上,中国家长大都希望孩子能出人头地,而美国家长更看重提高孩子的生存适应能力和创造能力;在教育方式上,中国家长喜欢包办替代,而美国家长更愿意让孩子自己动手实践,这些差异导致了两国儿童成人后在生存适应能力上的明显差距。从中美家庭教育的差异上可以看到我国在家庭教育上存在的不足。因此,正确认识并借鉴国外先进的教育方法,对促进孩子健康成长、提高未来人才的素质具有很重要的现实意义。
Abstract Family is the first school of one’s life,which is also the basis and essential supplement of formal speaking,family,as the smallest cell of society,is the first life step for everyone as we all were born and live in it,from which we enter a larger and wider field of social life. So as for everyone, family is the first school and parents are first teachers in it. Besides, family is closely linked to children’s body maturity, knowledge acquirement, ability cultivation, morality edification and character formation. And distinct differences can be found easily in family education between China and America, on the family member relationship, parents are dominant over children in China while equal in the USA, parents are more likely to show respect to children’s the belief of raising children, Chinese parents are unexceptional to hope their children to be outstanding without regard to their own quality while American parents pay more attention to improving children’s ability to survive and creat based on their own interest. On the way of education, Chinese parents will monopolise almost children’s everything that should be done by children while American parents are more willing to let children do everything all by themselves. Because of those above cause a great disparity in adapting changing environment after they grow up. Thus making it with significant reality f