文档介绍：今日英才《父母做对才不累》------责任、荣辱、使命!今日英才商城 - 孩子教育的首选平台 ................................2一、巧用你的耳——倾听....................................................... 31、认同.................................................................. 42、陪伴.................................................................. 5二、妙用你的眼——观察....................................................... 6三、慎用你的手——代劳......................................................14四、慎用你的嘴——说教···············································14第二章成绩如何上的去情绪调节最给力........................................ 16一、抓住喜悦每一天.......................................................... 171、喜悦在于每一天。..................................................... 172、“但是”技巧.......................................................... 20二、避开愤怒那瞬间.......................................................... 21三、找准忧愁根源处.......................................................... 23四、欣赏认真的思考.......................................................... 25五、理解孩子的悲伤.......................................................... 26六、同感恐惧的情绪..........................................................28 七、突发事件同惊恐..........................................................30第三章成长过程看得见感情状态需多变....................................... 32一、夫妻关系大于亲子关系.................................................... 34二、需要给孩子温暖.......................................................... 35三、留给孩子空间............................................................ 36四、相聚是爱,分离也是爱········································38第四章尊重而不是认同积累能量才不穷.......................................39一、尊重向上的心........................................................... 39二、正视“所谓的错”....................................................... 481、学了没学好算不算错................................................... 502、做了没做对算不算错................................................... 50三、教会正确的路........................................................... 501、学****执着的带动(在职考大学)......................................... 512、家庭责任的带动........................