文档介绍：爱思英语编者按:每个家长都希望自己的孩子出类拔萃,前途一片光明。他们费尽财力,精力,只为了孩子有个美好的未来。可是,他们想过自己的孩子适合什么吗?他们知道自己孩子的潜力和激情在哪里吗?在一个竞争的社会里,家长们应该盲目地随大流强迫孩子去学习所谓有利于他们发展的东西,还是应该激发他们内心的热情,帮助他们追求自己的梦想,走自己的路呢? "I've changed my mind," said my 13-year-old daughter, Francie. "I don't want to be a lawyer anymore. I want to be in the FBI." I tried to imagine my daughter's bespectacled face staring back at me from the climbing wall at Quantico, but the image didn'e easily. Still, I replied, "How cool is that?" "Yeah," Francie said, arms folded in satisfaction. "It's going to be good." I hope it is. I hope that her life turns out absolutely according to her dreams. If she doesn't quite hit the bull's-eye, then she'll still have aimed in the right direction. When your child announces he's going to be a rock star, let him dream a little--and share some happy music sessions together, exploring his long ago, someone asked the dad ofa young pop star what his son would have done if he hadn't e a singer-songwriter. The father said he had never considered anything else. This was his Plan A. There had been no Plan mentioned this to my son Marty, a musical theater major, when he was pondering a second major in business or teaching. "Don't do it on my account," I said. "But what ifI don't make it?" he asked. 更多信息请访问: / "Someone has to," I answered. My friends think I'm crazy. They've advised their own growing children to