文档介绍：假设你是中华中学一名中学生,最近你正在参与一个研究性学****研究调查,调查课题为“关于父母是否对孩子感到骄傲”。
 
父母:对孩子感到骄傲
80%
孩子:认为父母对自己感到骄傲
60%
  A study has been carried out recently on whether parents take pride in their children. Having surveyed the students of our school and their parents, we finally got the results, as is shown in the chart. 80% of the parents surveyed said that they did, while 60% of the student subjects gave the same answer.
Where dose the twenty percentage go? From my perspective, two factors contribute to it. On one hand, in the Chinese traditional educational pattern, parents would rather show their pride behind children’s back for fear that they  might be too over-confident to behave well. When es to face-to-face conversations, parents prefer to point out mistakes, ignoring the fact that sometimes child needs more encouragement than criticism. 
On the other hand, children are also to blame for their impatience and less attention to parents. We work hard and are so desperate to win praise and applause. When we don’t get what is expected, we easily are drown into disappointment, e angry, plaining, and lose the patience to calm down and think deeply. Naturally, we fail to find out how deep our parents love us and how proud they are knowing we achieve a lot. 
The missing twenty percentage mirrors the generation gap. Luckily, as long as parents and children make joint efforts