文档介绍：Peter Wan (Pastoral Care Worker) Journal Club 21 st Oct 2010 恕恕如心。。。?子贡问曰:有一言,而可以终身行之者乎。?子曰:其恕乎,己所不欲,勿施于人。? Zi Gong asked: “ Is there a word with which we should act in accordance throughout our lifetime? ”? Confucius replied: “ It is ‘ reciprocity .’ Do not do unto other what you do not want others to do unto you. ”?论语卫灵公 15:23 恕=原谅? ? Reciprocity = Forgiveness? 原谅(For giveness) ?古典阿兰文:取消、解开?拉丁文“ perdonare ”: 没有保留的付出?英文:开脱罪过?总括来说,是单方面的行为恕(Reciprocity) ?古埃及、古希腊的伦理观?跟孔子的“己所不欲,勿施于人”不相伯仲恕(Reciprocity) ?耶稣说: ?所以,凡你们愿意人给你们做的,你们也要照样给人做: ?法律和先知即在于此(玛 7:12) ?你们愿意人怎样待你们,也要怎样待人(路 6:31) ?因此, 恕包涵一个“互助互惠”的互动(interplay/interaction) 心比心?恕,是“将心比心”?替别人着想?不为难别人?“如心”?是一种德行?恕: ?我之心亦如人之心?人之心亦如我之心?恕己恕人?兼恕萬物 Reciprocity ? Reciprocity is not only the human way of harmonizing social relationships but also the human way of entering into communication with nature and establishing a dialogical connection with Heaven. ?“恕”不是协调社会关系的唯一的,也是与大自然进入沟通,及发展与天命一个交谈联系的人类途径。?杜维明, Centrality monality, 106.