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life without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as what we could have been. And we could never fly. 从前，在一个特别特别遥远的国度，有一位心地和善的老人。他宠爱一切东西，动物啦、蜘蛛啦、昆虫啦。
一天，这位和善的老人在树林里漫步的时候，发觉了一个蝴蝶的茧。他把茧带回了家。 几天后，茧裂开了一道小缝。老人几小时地坐在那里，看着蝴蝶挣扎着让自己的身体从小缝中挤出来。后来，蝴蝶破茧好象停了下来，没有什么进展了。看来蝴蝶好象是撑到了最终，再也不行能前进了。
看到这里，老人确定协助蝴蝶。于是他找出一把剪刀，把茧剩余的局部剪破了。
这样，蝴蝶就轻易地从茧中脱出来了。 但是，蝴蝶的身子肿胀着，翅膀又小又皱。老人接着视察着蝴蝶，因为他期望着这样一个时刻的到来：蝴蝶的翅膀会变大，大到能支持它的身体，而蝴蝶的身体届时也会缩小。可是什么也没有发生。事实上，这只蝴蝶的余生中就只能拖着臃肿的身体和萎缩的翅膀爬来爬去了。
它恒久也不能飞起来了。
在好心和匆忙间，老人并不理解，蝴蝶破茧而出时须要的那种束缚和挣扎其实是大自然用来将蝴蝶的体液挤到翅膀中的方法，这样，蝴蝶一旦能从茧中脱出，就能打算好翱翔了。 有时候，挣扎正是我们生活中所须要的。假如我们能得以毫无障碍地走过一生，这会使我们懦弱。我们就不行能变得强壮。
重要的是，我们就不行能腾飞。 2．坚持你的幻想
I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Sedro. He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money for youth at risk programs.
The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, I want to tell you why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young man who was who would go from farm and ranch-to-ranch, training horses. As a result, the boys high school career was asked to write a paper about what he wanted to be and do when he grew up. That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even drew a the location of all the buildings, the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot house that would sit on the 200-acre dream ranch.
He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next