文档介绍:智课网IELTS备考资料雅思阅读材料之如果对孩子一直说“yes”会怎样?,plainsconstantlyaboutmystyleofparenting."You’realwayssaying'No',"plain,asItellthemtheycan’,我自己的孩子也一直抱怨我对他们的养育方式。晚饭时当我告诉他们不能再吃蛋黄酱的时侯,他们抱怨说"你总是说'不'。""It’sbadforyou,"Isay."So,no,youcan’t."我说:"再吃对你们的健康不好,不,你们不能再吃了。""Yousaynotoeverything,"saysLeonard,:"你对任何事情都说不。"Heandhisyoungersiblings—Jerry,six,andOttoline,three—thenlisteverythingIhavesaid‘No’,playingoutsidewiththeiruniformon,biscuits,gettingstuffoutfromdrawer,painting?…他和弟弟妹妹们——6岁的Jerry和3岁的Ottoline列了一张清单,上面写着他们从学校回家后我说的所有的"不"。糖果、在外面穿着校服玩、饼干、从抽屉里拿东西、画画……I’vealwaysconsideredmyselfaprettyeasy-goingparent,andyetheretheyaretellingmeI’manay-,但是他们竟然说我是一个总说"不"的老巫婆。Accordingtothecurrentlyfashionableideaof‘freeparenting’,though,whatIshouldbesayingis‘Yes’.然而根据最近流行的"亲子养育"观点,我应该说"是"。It’‘freeparenting’,Iwouldsayyestoeverythingmychildrenwantedforanentireweek—,所以这就对我来说特别有趣。根据"亲子养育"的方式,在整整一个星期内,我要对