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你会赞扬别人吗（2）
能恰当地赞美别人是一件佳事，可是该怎样赞扬别人可不是人人都会的。下面这些建议你可须要谨慎考量哦！
3. The effusiveness and time spent
你会赞扬别人吗（2）
能恰当地赞美别人是一件佳事，可是该怎样赞扬别人可不是人人都会的。下面这些建议你可须要谨慎考量哦！
3. The effusiveness and time spent in giving praise should be commensurate with the difficulty and time-intensiveness of the task. If a task was quick and easy, a hasty “Looks great!” will do; if a task was protracted and difficult, the praise should be more lengthy and descriptive. Also, you might bring up the praise more than once.
表扬用的时间和言语应当和该任务的困难程度和时间强度相同。 假如一项任务即快又简单，那么匆忙一声“看起来不错！”就行了；假如一项任务冗长而困难，那么表扬的话应当更长、更详细。同样，你可能要屡次表扬。
4. Remember the negativity bias. The “negativity bias” is a well-recognized psychological phenomenon: people react to the bad more strongly and persistently than to the comparable good. For example, within marriage, it takes at least five good acts to repair the damage of one critical or destructive act. So if you want to praise someone, remember that one critical comment will wipe out several positive comments, and will be far more memorable. To stay silent, and then remark something like, “It’s too bad that that door couldn’t be fixed,” will be perceived as highly critical。
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